Because we are nothing like our parents.
We are a generation of hackers, founders, and creators.
We have redefined everything from our education to our careers, changing jobs as often as we change the cities we live in.
and we do relationships differently.
We meet later in life, we live together before marriage, and generally break all of the “rules”.
Weddings have been celebrated for centuries, and most of the wedding traditions that we still practice today have been hanging around since then. That's THOUSANDS of years.
How can we be so comfortable being rebellious with just about every other aspect of our lives, but when it comes to planning a wedding we are so worried about whether or not we are doing the right thing?
We are afraid of offending people and afraid we might do it wrong.
Want to know the truth?
There are no wedding rules.
And now that you know that, what if you just forgot everything that you currently know about weddings?
Imagine ignoring what your friends have already done, and what your parents think a wedding should be. Would that change the way you plan yours?
THIS IS NOT ANOTHER WEDDING BLOG.
This is a place to design your MARRIAGE MANIFESTO.
It is a perfectly gracious f—k you to the wedding “rules” that have been placed upon us for decades.
It is a resource for the enlightened bride. Aimed to EMPOWER not overwhelm.
Wedding planning isn't about just crossing off a bunch of “To Do” items
It's about designing an experience that celebrates the essence of your relationship today—the one you are experiencing right now in 2019.
Instead of looking at an outdated list of items you are supposed to include in your wedding, let’s look at what you actually want to include.
If Anyone Can Plan Their Own Wedding, It’s You
The fact that you found your way here is proof of that.
I’m here to help you define exactly the kind of celebration you want—one that represents the kind of marriage you want;
Protect you from getting caught up in wedding craziness, and overspending on items you don’t want or need;
Help you to manage relationships and awkward conversations;
And empower you to plan an irresistible wedding, even if—especially if—it is nothing like what people expect.